Just inspired with a dialogue with Jane yesterday I decided to finish this article today.

So how you think girls choose sexual partners for them?

Actually If you will think over, it’s obvious that  men offer and  girls decide. They decide “to take or not to take” the offer. In very very very seldom cases boys choose or boys decide. So the natural mechanism of our society is that “girls decide”.

If you have already mentioned , our society consists from many pyramidal organizations and society itself is a pyramid. The base of the pyramid is common people. They are the working power and they supply the main customer and tax base for the government. On the top of the pyramid are 2-3 dinosaurs . There is a lot of place on the bottom of the pyramid , but on the top there is in much cases just one person.So lets asume that a  common girl “in vacuum”

What you think if a girl has a choice between 2 men which are

1) A guy who is avesome and working in a supermarket, or lets say has even no  job

2) The same guy’s copy  , who is avesome and has a company with 200 working personal and yearly turnover of 50mln Euro

Many girls would insist that nobody can surely say   about any girl’s choice, buy I am sure, that a demanded girl would choose second  variant.

With or without understanding the fact,  each girl is making “social status test” . As much hight is your status, as much is higher the possibility that “her” choice would fall into your direction, and she will accept your offer to “have sex”. Or to “make love” .Name you it as you feel better.

How this “social status test ” takes place? There are different criterion, how   girls test your status.

First of all they look to your outlook. Saying outlook I understand your body, your closes , your manner of behavior and also your accessories. Main point of your outlook is your body’s health situation: your muscles, fat quantity, your teeth, your hair and so on.  Normal girl will choose a healthier guy  than an ill one without teeth and without a foot for example. The argument is that if you will think over , then which girl want a guy who will die in a week the child will born?

Next step check is your internal feelings, your self confidence, and confidence in your so called  “men rights” .

What about accessories…. Hm, in this place  I could write  even a script with 100 pages, but  you can find a lot of things to think over if you will watch photos of any prominent party… Just I want to figure out for you one thing. The main thing which are showing the place of a men in a social pyramid is his watch. Maybe you don’t know, but not a mobile phone, not shoes, and not a costume, but the watch can tell many things about it’s respective owner and especially about his success and place in the financial pyramid.

Really let’s say you see in a cafe of  Hotel Blablabla two men are sitting and having morning cofee with some reading  of Wall Street Journal or Financial Times, and you can mention that one has a watch of 250-1000Euro category and second is wearing a Philippe Patek’s „Sky Moon Tourbillon“  which, if you don’t know  costs 700.000 Euro you will definitely understand who is where in the financial pyramid, don’t you?

Once a girl told me directly

-You know, I like, when a boy wears luxury watchs. I would even sleep with a boy, who has a very very costy watch. Its so sexy!

(For her the costy starts from 5000USD… As I found out some-while after, pity that I can’t still afford me for such a watch but nice that I know some tricks, that cover such a hole… )

That time I was not quite in the theme, so  I was very surprised , but know I see why she was thinking in that way…

Then , once , last year, I made a  test on one of my good friends. A  girl. I told her about this story , and just added, somehow joking…

-If she knew, how much I paid for mine, she should beging to take her closes off defenitely….

I usually don’t wear watches, because I forget them somehow, and I even don’t need to check the time each time, but…Some 5-6 days later, when we were sitting in a very public place, and I had a watch on my hand, she saw my watch , and begin to watch it like she had a loop in her hand…

I want to add for you my dear reader one fact. Each girl  more or less  dressing “fashion” stuff is quite good informed about any prices and price levels of not only women closes and accessories, but also prices and price levels for men stuff.

So anytime a girl sees a new guy, she is making her first impression , which is directly related to  what he has on.

So  subconsciously in that  3-5 second she is calculating and valuing each part of your profile(not only dresses, but also physical data)

and if she is in a search also she makes somehow a conclusion

“I would sleep with this handsome guy” or “Brrr, what a miserable one”, or… Anyway all variants come to

YES /NO. And then the guy have a huge task

1. not to destroy the impression

2. take advantage of the situation and develop it

Now any girl here will argue

-Hey, you, what a f***k … We don’t look only for the money…

And they somehow will be wrong/right…

Actually I want to tell you about the “theory of 100 points” developed by a very known person, author, psychologist , and a nice man Philipp Bogachev .

He says that the girls are valuing men in 5 different criterions.

1. Outlook -a
2. Internal state of the person-b
3. Place in the Pyramid-c
4. What you speak -d
5. How you speak e

For each part of the valuation you can get maximum 30 points. So a spherical ideal man , wich if exists would be directly taken to Paris’s BIMP , Measurment Museum(Bureau International des Poids et Mesures, BIMP), have 150 points.

But it’s an ideal person which doesn’t exist. So he argues that you should harmonically develop each part of  this criterions, so that from each you can get somehow 20 points, and overall 100. If you are a successfull guy, who knows what to speak with girls, and HOW to speak, and also you have  a salary of lets say 4.000 Euro monthly, you are quite strong personality, and  you are not looking like Quasimodo,and you work out yourself a bit, you willl NEVER  hear word like “no” from a girl. If even so, you can freely  begin to think about the adequacy of the girls mind, or maybe she is married, or some “critic days” stuff..

Sometimes one part of this valuation, let’s say is covering other parts. For money even there is a joke….

A 90 year old man is standing near the mirror and watching himself. Very old man, ugly face, bones are coming out everywhere, bear belly, mouth with prosthesis and then he looks back and see a nice 25years old girl, nice, titty, hot and so on…  And he says to himself.

-Hm… To love sooooooo much the money!

Funny? Not at all. There is a lot of such examples, when a millionaire old man marry with a young girl, who is 20-40 years younger ….

Just a deal. He has money, he is on the medium of the pyramid, and she wants his money. He wants his body. She hopes that she will be so hot, that he will die during their honeymoon there is some theries that in such cases  girl looks in this old men her father, which she hadn’t or her father was an alcoholic or some other stuff. Anyway, the fact is that you are valued. With the sum of your money, and with your place in the pyramid.

And the other fact is that as much girl is nicer and successfull, as much are her requirements from a boy .

To prove this theoretically , lets see  Elliot Aronson’s  described experiment… They were  such an experiment. They took a big  group of girls. Each girl was given a valuation of her sexual attractiveness. Then each girl was asked to answer if they would like to date a boy with high , medium and low income. The most attractive girl choosed a boy with most  prestige profession and totally rejected the candidates from medium and low level of income. Medium attractive girls also rejected boys with lowest income professions. But in case of medium attractive profession, handsome boys get a chance… So the result was that nicer girls have more requirements and less attractive girls requirements are understated.

Anyway I think also that each girl has in her mind a tipe of clich? , in which she made a recipe of “ideal boy”.

Some girls likes too much self confident guys, some girls like boys with hight kharizma, some girls like money.

And this ideal boy can have different quanitity of points from each criterion.

Lets say 20a+15b+16c+23d+10e

So of you will have 21a+16b+17c+24d+11e be sure , if you behave right, she is yours.

Cheers!

P.S. I have used materials of P.Bogachev , and 4See’s conspect

I used also english Alphabet